Love, Relationships and cheating... pt -1

On Several occasions when I go out to a mall or a book shop I often find myself ogling at good looking women and with the summers approaching often these already stunning women are wearing stunning dresses with a lot of boobies and legs showing. not that I am a pervert or an old world enthusiast but I would be wrong if I would say that I don't love the view. I do. But sometime also find some women looking and staring at me.. and not all of them look single.. like the other day there was this couple lets say somewhere in early thirties or late twenties visibly married were walking right next to me with their shopping cart in a large grocery store. yes folks i also do groceries once in a while it is fun to fill your cart with all those choc, cereals, coke, Pepsi, chips and what not... So this women turns around to pick something in the aisle and notices me and then every once in a while she has to do that .. soon it becomes a full blown ogling.. not i wonder was it harmless, was it just ogling, was it attraction, was it cheating, was it hormones , was it some hidden chemistry i don't know maybe will never know.. but then is she wrong...? probably her partner does the same all the time and maybe even flirts or sleeps with other women on one of his many supposed travels and off sites.....
Humans by nature are polygamous then why is it wrong to think of that other person.. supposed i know my partner does flirt and sleep with others or maybe our relationship is not working at all and we are there together for the heck of it then is it wrong to fulfill my carnal desires with someone else. what is cheating? well to each person it means different things.. to the one who feels cheated on everything is wrong but for the other person something usually triggers it.. maybe the better looking women, maybe someone who has more time for the other person, better understanding, more money list is endless...it could simple be also something for kicks.. would it be wrong for me to sleep with one of my gf's friends if we were not getting along and a breakup was imminent. Ans: I don't know. sometimes i feel yes it is cheating sometimes I don't. I don't know what my wife or gf is doing behind my back. yes you may call it a break of trust but again how can one be so sure. you only trust someone till it breaks and usually your trust breaks months or years after the deeds have been done and it only breaks if and when you find out.

Humans are a funny lot.. they do everything in hushed tones and behind locked doors and its always the other person who is wrong.. or some one else's husband or wife who is doing this slutty thing which women love gossiping about and men wish they could do the same too.. but the reality is everyone wants to do that other man or women and even when we can we do sometime and some people do and other just dont get the courage.. but is it all wrong..

to be continued in pt-2....